My advice is the same as the advice to the LBS, no pressure. I know that if in a year my W came to me wanting to reconcile I would feel it was too late. I kind of feel that now. But deep down I still love her, no matter how hurt I am. I know I'll have that love somewhere deep down in me for the rest of my life.
Take things slow. Again, I'm only projecting myself into your H's situation, but too much too fast would bring up too many bad memories all at once.
~Mark
Me: 38 W: 34 Together: 9yrs 1st M: may '03 1st D: april '08 1st bomb: june '08 remarried: oct '08 2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)
