you dont go to your counsellor for spiritual matters.. you'd probably be disappointed by the results, right? So dont go to your pastor(s) for counselling. that's what your counsellor is for.
The guys name is "Pastor", not "Jesus". So please have reasonable expectations of him? :-)
Some pastors may be wonderful, sensitive "counsellor" type people. Most are probably not. SO, just like unreasonable expectations of one's spouse.... dont have unreasonable expectations of your pastor, and then you wont set yourself up for disappointment?
