OK Drew, pull up a chair, grab some popcorn, here we go.
11/08 - Everything seemed to be fine then all of a sudden late 11/08, my wife came home to tell me she was pregnant. She said it was a one time fling. She gave me the ILYBNILWY BS and was going to leave. I talked her into staying.
12/08-1/09 - Wife decided to have an abortion. We talked and were going to work on our M. Of course, she gave me a laundry list of things I did wrong. Some I agreed with, some I didn't but I was going to make myself better for us. Things between us were going real well but 3 different times, she came home absolutely trashed and would say horrible things. I know now she was trying to get me to kick her out.
2/6/09 - I caught my wife in a lie and I called her on her cell. She was drunk and proceeded to tell me that it wasn't a one time fling but an ongoing affair with her boss(he's 20 years older than her). She said she loved both of us and didn't know what to do. She left the next day to think about things. She came home 2 days later and this is when I got the first inkling things weren't right with her. She would say things like "My brains feel like scrambled eggs" and "I have demons that I need to deal with". Things were rocky when she first came home. She would go from hot to cold within hours.
2/17/09 - I caught her in another lie. She was with boss. I got drunk. She called home and was fine until she found out I was drunk then all hell broke loose. In hindsight, she found something that she could justify her leaving.
3/09 - She moved in with a friend of hers until she could get her own place. We went to one MC session together and the cslr told her she was running from her problems and she had issues she had to deal with before we could even work on the M. Affair with OM #1 ends, she meets OM #2. OM #2 went to grade school with her.
4/09 - Wife gets her own apartment. OM #2 moves in with her mid-April.
5/09-6/09 - Wife hates me. We go 4 weeks of NC. Memeorial Day she attempts to go to MIL's with kids and OM #2. They tell her OM #2 is unwelcome. I get a text saying that it's my fault for ruining the relationship between her and her Mom because I'm so f'n perfect. She said she was going to see a lawyer. I stay quiet. Late June we are civil to each other, but contact is only by text. She makes the claim that OM #2 is her soulmate.
7/09 - On 7/8 I get a text asking for my DL #. I ask why and she says for court papers. I say, figure it out on your own. She went to one of those do it yourself places to do the paperwork. 14 weeks later I have yet to be served. Wife and OM #2 move into OM #2 mom's house.
8/09 - Wife and OM #2 get into a fight and OM #2 kicks her out. Wife goes and stays with MIL for a couple weeks. Find out at this time that she is pregnant.
9/09 - Wife gets her own place. 9/2 she has a miscarriage. She begins to show interest in me but then she also starts partying and doing the bar scene practically everyday she doesn't have the kids.
