Past Limbo: Wife officially wants divorce

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I hear you. I know it is early in the process or maybe in the middle somewhere. I feel like I am the beating stick daily. Even when we do have good days, like yesterday. She can take it and drive it to the ground.

I am trying to keep my patience daily. It isn't easy. However, now that she has asked for the divorce officially, it has been a bit easier to cope everyday.

I did have a crisis last year when I had horrible insomnia. Was looking for support from her. Got if for a couple months and then it was gone. She has admitted this to me as well. She said she couldn't handle it and tried the tough love approach with me--didn't work and it got worse....What if I had cancer, would she have been there. Scares me to thing...

Thanks.