Kat, They say love is blind. After my H and I separated I also had many people talk about how arrogant he was and how they would have never put us together.
I all know we say that the WAS becomes a person we did not marry. I totally believe this. My H used to be really kind and crazy about his family. I look back now and I can see the changes about three years before we separated. I guess the signs are there but we are afraid to admit that there is somthing really wrong. We bury our heads in the sand. I think we all have learned valuable life lessons through this awful journey.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon