...I see my W happily dating & living the single life & see myself living in my house all alone, wishing I had someone around. I know...it's a horrible attitude to have. That's the biggest thing I need to work on. Insecurity.
The day I was alone by myself and happy was a great day. All the personal growth and loving myself came together one day. I am enjoying life. MsR2C is still stuck and angry. We are lucky to have this support site. Our spouses are not quit so lucky.....They are bound to repeat without going through the personal growth. If they come back to us, then they grow.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712