mish, I never ever had any doubts you all want anything else but me being happy (ok, except John maybe but I digress-LOL- ti amo pig-cousin).
I dont know if he will find the strength to decide he will be a good person in the sense that I've explained. I told him I dont want easy answers. He is facing himself, not me. He knows and I could hear it in his voice, I am strong enough to handle both options. He knows now, I am clear about what my life should be like. He knows I would file tomorrow. K
