Frankly RSF, I think this is a strange question from you, considering you wife has done possibly the ultimate detachment and look how you now want to work it out......
BINGO!!!!!
Me45 (D11 from 1st marriage) W43 (D20 & D16 from 1st marriage) M4 Bomb 6/16/09 W wants D W moved out 8/29/09 I sent her D paperwork 9/25/09...I'm done
