As of right now Stronger I'm going to have to wait a couple of weeks of NC with the wife before I approach her with that plan. What I have picked up from our morning conversation yesterday is that she is starting to see some of her faults. I have always wanted sunday to be family day. But the more she spent time with us as a family the more she kind of pushed us away for her own agenda.
Yes she is a child and I do see what you are saying about her. I don't think she wants a divorce also. She has said many times she is going to get our clans together but I haven't had a phone call yet.
I will wait for the next 2 weeks to talk with her about those things you have suggested. I think if I do it now she isn't going to reason with me.
Me:27 W:24 S:2 D:9 months M:3 years Together for 8 years Bombed : 6/11/09 Moved out: 6/27/09 Found out about her affair 9/7/09 (she started her's at 6/25/09) Begged n plead 7/25/09 started DB 8/17/09