Harpo - our 20th is in 2 weeks and I have been mulling over the same question. I will go to the church we were married in and sit and think about the good things about our 20 yr M and 26 yr R and give thanks to God for that.

Other than that, however, it will just be another day as far as my interaction with W and I don't plan to do anything out of the ordinary. I will get her a card and tuck it away just in case she actually gets one for me, however. If she actually did something like this it would be a big suprise.

ME/XW:47
S21, D19, S15, S14
M:21 T:26
W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12
W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline