More importantly, the book explains how the 'hope for reconciliation' is a form of denial. This book was one of the key ones' that catapulted me forward in being able to handle all this. I agree that it should be read with DB/DR
Can anyone point to any hard evidence that reconciliation exists after detachment (DB term) / Emotional Healing (Venus Mars term)? What do the numbers tell us?
I felt from the moment I joined this site that we offering each other some slight hope for reconciliation as bait to come into the detachment process which inevitably leads to health and happiness and of course divorce!
I don't mean to be a spoil sport but is DBing an oxymoron?
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
