What is there that can relieve these hurts. My grief is constant. I maintain connections with encouraging, and loving friends, but the reality of this loss is just devastating. I can be in a good and healthy environment this a.m. and tonight the loneliness sets in. Just don't know how to disconnect.
It's time man...more than anything, it's gonna be time. All the other stuff you've read about here helps you too, and it helps you bide that time. You gotta work harder on detatching, plain and simple. I know it hurts, believe me I do!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.