Drew
Don't expect her to feel any guilt about not being there for son - she won't. If she feels pushed into a corner or controlled she'll probably go after all the custody she can get (and doesn't want) just to prove some point. She won't just need to win either. She'll be driven to totally destroy you. Let it go!

You aren't suppose to get it. Her logic is momentary and very fluid. This is the "re-writing history" lesson for you. If you had a voice recording of her prior statements she would just say "wasn't me".

And in a way, she'd be right.

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