E, this is all part of the fantasy she needs to play out. She may go thru with it, she may not. She may just want to BE IN A POSITION to go thru with it, if she should decide to pull the trigger. In none of those events CAN YOU CONTROL IT, okay?
She will do what she will do. As SmileysPerson used to say on his thread, learn to just "smile and wave." This is a stage she needs to go thru.*
Puppy
*CAVEAT: so long as these are entirely HER funds. You SHOULD firewall your OWN, and your family's JOINT, assets, so that she cannot squander them on an adulterous whim.
