So I just got a call from my W. She is now insisting that we go back to counseling, either me alone or together as a couple, to "deal with my anger issue". She is now "scared for her own safety" and "Can't go on together if I am going to be like this"
She said "Anger is not OK!"
I corrected her: "No, anger is OK, it is not OK that I acted up in my anger".
In reply to which she singsonged (mimiking Retro) "Oh, that's right, feelings are neither good nor bad"
I stayed calm and corrected her: "Mrs Thinker, this is not "my anger problem" My anger is my reaction to your actions and to our situation. Do not be disrespectful like that every time I tell you what I am feeling. That is a big part of the issue."
To which I got an "I'm sorry" that said she wasn't really.
I stayed outwardly calm but...
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.