Thank you again dday, I know, hard not to "expect".... when we're all together, it just feels so normal. But I'm very aware of how I present myself and this is all good, but if he Really decides (hopefully) that we can be a family in one house, we'll probably have some work to do. What is kind of nice, however is that there is the excitement of a "new R" here. I'm learning more about patience...not my strong point. I'll keep you posted : )