Year 2...and still breathing!

[BeingMe]

Hi Wii! This is where PM's would be useful, but it is no longer allowed on this site. Honestly, I don't know what's normal. I've been in the same organized church for more than 25 years, but different cities, since we have moved fairly often. I have found it not a good source for making new friends. People are very involved in their own families and long friendships. Also, I have some issues with belief. But, until now, we have been so grateful for their youth program, but this city, it kinda sucks. So, we feel no pressing need to go to church. And, I'm not sure, if I want to change.

They are not very flexible either, for instance, I wanted to have our vows renewed, but they would not do that. Of course, we could've just done it by ourselves, but my H obviously doesn't want to do it.

It's just been one thing after another. I have gotten to the point of not being so much touchy, but don't really care to share in church. There have been the odd church leader who I could talk to, but they are scarce.

But, I don't want to put you off going, if you are getting something good, spiritually, out of it. I agree that email is probably not your best bet for communication. Just go chat to one or both and let them know how you feel. If they are truly caring then they will understand how you are feeling. And, you will know why they have not got back to you.