I'll have all my financial declarations ready today. STBX sent me an e-mail asking if I'll have it done before she goes away on the 20th. Of course I will, I promised her she would be divorced by the end of the month.
D14 has been having a rough time. I talked to her counselor about her not sleeping, and just being unhappy and not wanting to go to school in the morning. After the counseling session D14 told me that she really had some issues with her friends, and that her mom pushes her to talk to her about them and when she doesn't want to talk STBX gets upset and makes her feel guilty for not confiding in her.
As D14 put it "It's like mom is always on her period and cries a lot when I don't want to talk to her".
Anyway, D14 stayed home from school again today. STBX called me and told me that she was exhausted and needed to rest. STBX said it's not because of our 'family situation' that she doesn't sleep, it's because of her issues with her friends.
I don't believe her but there's nothing I can do.
As for myself, I continue to keep a detached tone when I speak with STBX. And I keep my focus on healing myself.
