Kalni -

Do the differing opinions here or with your family and friends cause you much confusion?

Katie provides a very balanced view of things. I however dont believe your H has the honor and will to rebuild a strong relationship from scratch. I would love to be wrong on this.

You have nothing to fear but fear itself. ® (FDR)

Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering. ® (Yoda)

Do or do not... there is no try. ® (Yoda)

What do you want? ® (Kerry)

Do Work ® (Cory)