If it is your night, you get him. If it is HIS night, you tell him what he would miss if you don't get him, but know that it is his night. Yep, let your L know if she said she wanted to know. I have no ideal why she doesn't want to get a temporary schedule immediately. Good job hanging up and I think you are right on that he wants to vent all of his guilt/anger on you and get you going...it makes him feel better.