Trying to save my M. W not really trying though.

[etrain]

Yep, it is. And notice I didn't say "Weekly and Monthly goals," I said daily and weekly.

Short-term goals (or even simple "to-do" lists) will help you stay focused, stay positive, and feel SUCCESSFUL, which of course you are. You're handling an unbelievable difficult thing with grace and courage, if I may say so.

Puppy

Thanks for the words of encouragement. Maybe I'll start off w/ some personal goals. I don't think R goals would be realistic right now.

I really need to keep busy...GAL and GAL some more. It's difficult because my W & S have been my social life for years. I feel a little guilty leaving my S home with W while I go out and do things myself...so I'm trying to come up with things he & I can do together.
And I know I'm supposed to be happy & upbeat (more attractive) around my W, but it's really tough right now.