Interesting development: last night my wife's youngest sister got into a bad fight with her H. She came to my W house and is staying there now.
This is the same guy that caused all kinds of problems with me and their family. He is the reason I did not want to go to her family's house for sunday dinner. I never like that kid, i thought he was bad news. Now I know i was right. Everyone was telling me that i should accept him for the sake of SIL but i knew better. I made an attempt to mend fences but in my heart of hearts i know it wasn't worth it.
Last night my W, her cousin (single at age 30) and SIL sat around talking till 5 am about stuff. Why do i get the feeling that the conversation revolved around how us men are crappy and them women deserve to be happy.
I want to believe that my wife had my back and was telling them how much of a good guy i am, but thats far fetched. Or that my SIL somehow tells my wife how lucky she is to have a guy like me around. But i don't think that happened either. Why do i care so much? I want so badly for a real second chance, i can taste it.
I do love my SIL and would protect her from this little creep in a heart beat. I feel this a chance for me to prove the meaning of family and that all is not lost in the land men.
But at the same time, i feel that i am inserting myself into a situation without being asked to. But i cant' help it. If my W and D are involved, that means i am involved.
I have a personal bone to pick with this guy. Do i blame him for my problems with my wife? Not really. But I do identify him as a source of problems.
