Hey guys, it's sure been a long time since I started a thread but I have been really down the last few days and I guess I need some advice on how to handle myself.
A Little background, Wife had no affair but was wanting a divorce back in January, I made changes in myself and she went to counciling. She came out of that and I was invited in to start MC. Wife starts doing a 180 and states that to the councilor that not only does she want a great marriage she wants the best marriage and she is willing to put in all of the effort. I was blown away.
From that point, I worked very hard on myself and making sure that I was a perfect husband (her words not mine)
I continue today trying to be that perfect husband but I find my resentment level going way up towards her. She has said ILY exactly one time since January, but she will say ILYtoo back to me. We ml about twice a week eventhough she seems to be doing me a favor when she is doing it rather than gettting really into it. She does not seem very supportive of what I am doing careerwise eventhough the steps I have taken in the past few months is about to reap a windfall of money for us.
OK enough complaining, I guess I am asking how can I stop this resentment level from going up? Just today when I was leaving I said to everyone, my 2 sons and her good bye and she said nothing as I walked out the door. Ususally I am the one that goes over and gives her a hug and a goodbye kiss, but I feel I am the only one working on this thing at times and when I give her the opportunity to give something to me, she rarely takes it.
