Hope, I feel Stronger's advice also applies to what I experienced last week. I asked probably three times about the concert tickets. The first two answers were ambivilent, but the third was angry. Guess I was pursuing. I also asked him to be upfront with me and let me know... then the angry answer. Pretty dumb on my part--what answer was I expecting to hear? I'm trying NC now and giving him space and trying not to care about anything that involves him.
I'm waiting to see what results I get from it.
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10