I agree Pup. We still have a lot to work through, but I must be honesst and say that I think my W's A did her some good.

Not that I'm glad she did it, lord knows I'd prefer we talked about it and worked out her issues with me and herself without OM involved, but if that's what it took for us to be in the kind of marriage we both want from here on out, I'll deal with it.

How sick is that?


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.