Thinker - if you're done, you're done and I support you. However, when you talk about filing in the post above, I'm hearing a decision motivated by anger. Taking action in anger often comes back to bite you in the butt (voice of experience), so perhaps you should give this a 30 day cooling off period?
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
