I surmise that this program is effective so long as both husband and wife do the work that‘s asked of them and follow the rules.
Yes. In fact, my advice for the weekend would be that if your spouse does not follow the rules as they are set out for the exercises, then you should call them on it immediately, and then go (as a couple) to talk to the mediators at the next break. Don't wait.
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I don’t understand why someone would take the whole weekend to attend Retro and not actively participate, or for that matter sabotage the weekend…why bother going in the first place?
My W answered that question in the first exercise. The Question was "Why am I here?" her answer "Because you want me to be"
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
