My L says we should wait until Jan. to file for spousal because then H will have his W2 form and will be able to show how much he is making.

I know that he is not spending it on someone else, but do believe he is saving it in his parents name since his credit is shot now. As far as the separation agreement it very expensive and like I said before my L said that the Masters don't like separation agreements so it is a 50/50 chance of winning and not getting anything until the D. Which I hope never happens.

I do get child support though, I should have filed for spousal then but didn't. And now my L suggests waiting until January. So now I'm stuck. But thanks anyway 25 for the advice.

Our D12's birthday is coming up....do I ask him if he would like to attend her party or not. It is a skating party for her and her friends and I will be the only adult there. I don't know what to do or if you suggest I do invite him because of the fact he was saying he was happy with me now (admitting he was wrong). How do I put it? I would text him, not call. He doesn't own a computer so e-mail it out.

Thanks


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08