Trying to save my M. W not really trying though.

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I haven't given it a ton of thought but I have a general idea what I'll say.

If she brings up S talk, I'll listen to what she says. Then say I need a couple days to look things over before I agree to anything. With custody concerns, financial concerns, & a house, I'm not rushing to agree with anything until I have ample time to dig into the numbers.

If she brings up R talk, I'm not sure what I'll say. The A has left me very jaded. I'll bring up the fact that I'm not sure what I want to do right now, because the A betrayed my trust in her. It will take a LONG time for me to get past that, if I EVER can. There would have to be 100% transparency and a 100% committment on her part.

I guess my main focus is to take things slow & not react emotionally.
I'd appreciate any other advice you guys can give.