Originally Posted By: mar1713
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I have pretty good instincts, and it seemed to me that when it was time to leave this night, I felt like my Ex had had enough together time, after the movie Sun and tonight, so I felt like maybe he needed some time to himself. Not like he was tired of seeing us, but like overload or something. Can't really describe it, it was just a feeling I had.


Suffice it to say, I think your instincts are right. Like I said, let him steer the ship for a while. But, all in all, this sounds very positive. Except on one front. Expectations. I know you want to fix what was broken and are persuing the possiblity of reconcilling and that is great. Just don't set yourself up with the expectation of doing so. Take it one day at a time, much like this is a whole new potential relationship (because in a weird reality, it is). That's what I would be most comfortable with my X if given the chance.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11