Confronting the OM's W - pros & cons

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When OMW said "let's just drop it", I took it as her not wanting me to contact her about it anymore...which is fine. She sounded very upset (naturally)..maybe a little shocked...& I got the impression she didn't want to discuss her M with a complete stranger (me).

I have no idea what's going on w/ W & OM right now. I'm sure OM must have let my W know what I did. W is hiding it well because she hasn't reacted or said anything to me about it.