For those with a WAS...How do you cope?

[LuLu]

I don't have much time right now but I say no, don't tell him yet. I would tell him the last time he comes to visit or speak to each other before you leave. The only reason I think you should tell him is your DD. If he wants to see your dd, he should be able to. You are respectful enough of the daddy-daughter relationship that it's not in you to do that plus I think it's vengeful. And if he asks why you didn't tell him sooner, tell him you did. It's the truth.

I'll touch base with you later. Got to run.