Hi SC - You're the same age I was when I started here. Our kids are also similar ages... I've learned to expect nothing from H during this time. Once in a while, I'm pleasantly surprised. Makes it so much easier than being bitter and resentful.
Been finding out more info on H from friends - the best bit being how he was rejected by a new girl he was interested in. I'm pretty sure it was snodderly who told me finding someone after the affair partner isn't as easy as they think. Also heard H got in to a fight at a club recently. Real mature.
I can't keep up with H's moods. Angry and pissed off one day, extra nice and generous the next. He didn't show up at close friend's birthday dinner the other day. Told friend it was because he didn't want to give me hope. He's used that excuse so many times, I'm wondering if there's a little projecting going on. Maybe it's himself he doesn't want to give hope to. Possible?
