Is this the end of my marriage?

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Trust me about this. If...."if" she does not move a little bit closer to check it out....then it really is over and you might as well shut the door.

I get the feeling that this is what will happen. But, what I'm doing now isn't working so it's worth a try at least.

How old is your daughter? This is going to be very difficult for you to have NC and then this "family" get together every time your W has visitation. Why do you have to be there? Why does she have to be at your house? Does this confuse your D or give her hope of the family reconciling?

My D is 8. My feeling is that there will be NC between the visits (which will be about once per week). I have to be there as I won't allow my W to visit my D on her own. My D's mother is also very much against this and without going into too much detail other parties are too. It has to be at my house as I don't want my D going to my W's new house especially while OM is there. We generally go out to be honest rather that stay in the house so it's not much of an issue.

I have told my D that it's over and that my W will not come back. To be honest I'm not sure if it confuses her or not but she seems to be fine about it and wants to see my W.