Sorry to hear about how the weekend turned out. Can't say I'm surprised though. Your W does just enough contacting to be sure you're not seeing anyone and are still interested in her.
I would seriously suggest the same thing that I've said since the beginning. STOP with the chit chat. The next time she calls about the kids, then goes into how her day was, just tell her you were with someone. Do this EVERY time. If she asks who, just say she doesn't know her. And that you've got to go. That's it.
Let that little seed sit in her head. I can guarantee you that she's going to be stewing about who this person is. The fact that she used your anniversary as a way of bringing up her "hurt" again is her playing the victim card. You should have just said, okay, whatever, just thought I'd ask before I made plans.
Do not answer all her calls. Let it go to VM.
You can do this.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
