Signs to look for when your W or GF is seeing OM...
1. Her concentration and focus on most any matter is impaired. She has a hard time making up her mind and sticking to it. Short attention span. 2. Her clothing and hair style changes. Sometimes subtle at first. 3. She might be listening to music she doesn't normally listen to. 4. She has opinions on matters that never interested her in the past. Subjects or hobbies that she found interesting in the past now have no significance to her. 5. She may be dieting and exercising more often. She seems to be more energetic. 6. She contradicts herself often in words and action. 7. She won't make a commitment to anything that requires a 24 hour advanced notice. 8. You notice signs of anger or inpatients at insignificant events or things you say. 9. She's very guarded with her cell phone or email.
Just my observations from my own past experience. Certainly not based on scientific research or anything like that. Just something to chew on.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain