Not only do people of character NOT react to tragedy in their life by choosing to violate sacred vows they made...
...they also don't choose to lie about it for several years...
...they also don't do their level best to convince the suspicious spouse that they are losing their mind with false accusations...
This is amazing to me. As much as I am a supporter of marriage, this support for a man who has wreaked so much havoc and brought so much damage is a complete surprise to me.
On the other hand, my guess is that some of you would be encouraging K in ANY relationship that she would be considering right now. Honestly now, if K were deciding whether or not to jet off to NY to explore a relationship with a new person, wouldn't some of you be encouraging her every bit as strongly?
See, I don't think some folks here are exactly pro-K's husband and second chances. I think they just want you to be happy and in a relationship again.
I could be wrong. If so, my apologies.
The man has shown his TRUE colors. It's up to you now K to decide whether or not you're willing to step up to the bar again with him, knowing what you now know about him.
In my opinion, there are too many decisions made based upon being afraid of leaving the known and moving into the unknown. The unknown rarely turns out to be as scary as we make it out to be.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
