The first time she left, I was devastated at first, then got used to the idea of her being gone. She came back to help me with our daughter's skin condition which has since gotten better.
When she first moved back, she was unhappy and made sure I knew it. Then she started softening back to her old self. Lately I noticed the tension rising again. I started getting the feeling that she started getting that feeling of "being trapped" again. But during that whole time, she never pursued an actual D even though she threatened it.
I do think she needs to leave to get whatever is in her system out. Whether or not I'm still going to be around is another story.
Have you been dating while your H has been gone. As DB says, do something different. Maybe just imply that you're seeing someone and see if that snaps him out of his MLC.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
