Here is my 2X4, and I think some will back me here, i.e. puppy, gucci. I don't care if you have moved out of your bed, if you do not want to be out of YOUR bed, move back! If she wants/needs the space, then she will go back to the guest bed. If you don't want to be out, then why are you? One thing that I did not give in on, and one thing that I can say that I will never have a regret over. I did not want, nor did I wish to have "the space". I was in it to win it, and even though I lost the battle, I did what I could and I will be able to live with that. JMO. Shock.