8 months into it, first post

[EJohn]

After thinking about it all weekend, I told the lawyer today not to do the 90 day set aside. I will progress with the divorce. If she doesn't want to divorce like she claims, then there should be some action on her part. Before the meeting, I thought that the next court date was the end, but the lawyer said that it could still take another year depending on if there is a fight or not over placement and property. I think she will be resistant when she realizes that she will not be getting as much money from me as she thought she would. I'm not looking to cripple her. No interest in that, I've let go of the hate. I just want an even split of the assets, debts, and equal time with the children. Should get interesting in the next few weeks.