Bill, glad the weekend was good for you. We enjoyed our time at Retrouvaille and had good results. The Post sessions are extremely helpful too. They go a lot further than the weekend. Lot's of reinforcement of what works in a marriage. Not just the dialoguing. My H wanted to just talk too. But we had felt so close using dialogue, I didn't want to give it up. So we compromised. Dialogued 3 times a week, talked the rest. Know what? The talking wasn't as good. It got rolled over and we didn't really do it some nights.
Best of luck with the weekend. LFH. I hope you have a good result too. Don't hesitate to speak to one of the presenters and ask for advice on your particular sitch. They are very experienced and have seen a lot of different relationships. They are there to help you.