Mishka was very courageous in her discussion of that topic. I am very interested to hear her insight on this.
My oh my...no pressure.
I'm not sure I have any insight to share because I honestly don't think there is anything anyone could do or say that would help me see a compliment as anything positive. It's more about the perception. I do like what GAG had to say about the strategy of having your W's back if her father starts to criticize her if front of you. Trust me, that would have made me feel very protected and safe. For most women, feeling protected equates to feeling loved. We may talk all liberated and crap but deep down we are one step away from those cave women being dragged by the hair.
I'm so glad to see you looking at the positives GIMA. These are all very good steps, wonderful memories, and quality time. Enjoy!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!