Undrdg,

Hi there! I wish that I understood the male perspective better. I appreciate any and all male feedback here.

Since I am not a WAW I don't really understand their perspectives. I think there are a handful of WAW's who post here ("sandi2" is one who provides great feedback, there are others, I just don't remember their names now) and can give you their perspective. I think it would be really helpful for you to check her thread.

Do you have much interaction with your W? You can experiment with the types of positive comments that she responds to, starting with comments about her appearance,.....or if you have children, how good she is with them. Offering to help her fix things around the house or apartment where she is staying.....or if she is still at home with you, helping with household chores. And do these things consistently and happily to show her the new you. Ultimately, you want to become the man that any woman would have to be a fool to leave.

Hope this helps! And check out sandi2's thread.

Good luck!

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