Ss. Thanks. I have been thinking long and hard on this one. I have been leaning towards selling the house before the D while we were in Separation mode for the required 1 yr. It only seemed fair. The challenge is kids and she does not work. I have been trying to work this out so the kids are not more traumatized than needs to be. They are 5 & 9.
Right now I have the kids from 3:30 til they sleep as she is at school til 10:30 or later M - Thursday then one whole day every weekend. This will continue for the next 5 months. It has been working out that I also have the kids Friday or Saturday evening as she goes out with her other about to be D girlfriend. So the next day she is a waste product and sleeping or dragging all day. So that day also works out to be mine. So in reality I have the kids 6 days a week. She makes the lunch and puts them on the bus and gets them off the bus. That's about it. She has given up on all the rest of the chores. Sorry I got into the weeds.
