Hang in there and keep venting. If W does not turn around at least you will have changed. Keep it up! Even a little call to say she missed what a good listener you are is a good thing, don't ruin it by second guessing her motives. Take it as a very tiny step that at least she is remembering some good things. Hope you have a great week and I will pray for you with your surgery.
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