My God, Future. She should not be in that profession. That's worse than a doctor who smokes. Sorry to sound judgmental, that's beyond shocking.
It shows you that adultery is a drug in the cheater's blood that alters their mind completely.
Don't I know it GH31. She was soooooo drugged out last fall. In the intel I got, she was mocking her clients how they were so pathetic, struggling to work through their problems, while she and OM were so perfect for each other.
The thing is, she's very well respected, even on the state and national scene, although she is DEFINITELY NOT pro-marriage. She's one of the "do what feels right to you" types of MC, obviously. I think it's so sadly perfect how that philosophy is being raked over the coals inside her watching our kids suffer all the time, and finding herself clinging to me even after she told me she didn't love me, our M was over, and she was so infatuated with OM. Now she tells me she still loves me, she says I'm a great man, I'm hot, and she's crying during child transitions, and this is almost a year later.
Over the years she would discuss her cases with me and get my opinion. She always seemed so personally vested in her clients. Their hurt was her hurt. I always respected it. I've considered giving her the question "W, what would you recommend if you were our MC?" The irony is overwhelming sometimes. Funny, I've thought of that same "doctor who smokes" analogy!
