Still in the tunnel with hubby

[kjensen]

I'd sleep too!

I am a pleaser as well. I talked to H a bit this weekend and changes I'm making in myself came up and H was looking at me like-what changes?..I said I have to break the habit of pleasing him(because he is impossible to please) and please myself and H agreed. He does have moments of clarity/sanity.

I think its those moments that make me question whether he is in MLC, (the doubt in my head is that he's just unhappy with me and I'm using the MLC label as an excuse/crutch to try to salvage an unsalvageable marriage). He has followed the outline/script pretty closely , but the doubt still creeps in..