Hey Bill,

From my perspective, Retrouvaille was quite successful for you guys. This is what I understand: (1) she feels closer to you now than b/f the weekend, (2) she agreed to continue with the dialogue, (3) she kept pulling you close last night, (4) she experienced "passion" from a kiss like she hasn't felt from you in a while, and (5) she wants to go out together.

IMHO, you have your miracle but just don't see it yet. Congratulations...you reconnected! You guys are on the right path. My W and I go to Retrouvaille this Friday...I pray and hope to have similar results. Wish me luck.

Kind Regards,
LFH


ME: 38
W: 35
D2.5 and S5
Married 12 years
Separated (same house, different rooms)
INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009
The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009