Cat, I am also interested in knowing more about your friend. There should be resources on base, he is getting a housing allowance and other stuff that is meant to support his family and she should be able to legally get access to that money.
FLTC - glad to hear you are doing okay. I understand the extension thing, but 6 months seems extreme! WTF is she waiting on?
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
