My STBXW did some wonderful things for me in the time of 'good'.
-she gave me my son and daughter -she made me laugh -she supported me and built me up when I went out on my own -we had many romantic nights -we shared many nights of good sex and intimacy -we went on many wonderful vacations together
But it was her decision that it was not enough for her. It was not fulfilling on a longterm basis. Her lifetime goals fell short for herself and she chose to list me as part of the cause. She also chose to let her affections wane and, like many of WAW's, chose not to work on it. She chose to emotionally withdraw from the marriage and try and find that what made her feel good in the past.
And so it is. That...is life...for many.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
